RESISTANCE

“Who, me? I’m not in resistance! I want the Law of Attraction to work for me.“ That’s what you think! Resistance is sneaking in under your radar, in the form of your thoughts. The thoughts of doubt that zoom past your conscious mind–that you don’t even realize you’re thinking. Things like, “I must not be doing it right, or I want it to happen just like this, or why is it taking so long, or I must be crazy to think this will work, or I’ve dreamed too big, how can this ever happen or everyone else can do this but me..”

Resistance to whatever is happening cancels out the attraction and causes pain. It’s not WHAT you resist, but the actual resistance itself. Your unhappiness and suffering is caused not by the situation, but by your resistance to it. Think about it, if it were the situation, we’d be victims of the environment or whatever is happening around us. We would have to wait until the situation changes and everything is great until we could feel good or happy.

Take a look at the sky, and then ask 4 or 5 people what they think about the weather. One will say it’s overcast so they are upset because they wanted to go to the beach. Another will say that they love it, because it will be cooler today. Someone else will say that they hate gray days.

It’s not the environment, it’s the resistance that people create within themselves that causes their upsetness. It’s their perception of what is going on that creates their feelings about it. It’s what you THINK about it.

Why do we resist anyway? As a child we seek to make the world inside us and outside a safe place. We create behavior patterns that help us cope with what is going on. Usually within our family, we find safety and can be outgoing and talkative, but out in the world, one be shy and reserved.

Change brings on discomfort, because you haven’t yet created a “safe” response to whatever is changing. Feeling unsafe while making changes in your thoughts and beliefs, doesn’t actually mean you ARE unsafe.

Just before a leap in your growth, you will feel that you want to resist the change and thus will feel uncomfortable and at a loss with what to do and how to react. When you’re doing something WRONG, RIGHT feels WRONG.

If you recognize that change usually means “something better is coming,” you will be better able to attract what you desire.

Resistance just seems to happen. You don’t consciously decide to resist. It’s just that unconsciously you are trying to control everything. When you stop trying to control resistance, it will go away.

1. Notice how you feel, it’s your emotions, your feelings that tell you whether or not you’re walking the right path.
2. Let it be okay-the resistance is a learned behavior, you can unlearn it. Allow whatever is going to happen, happen. Allowing is one of the rules of the Law of Attraction.

Changes in your growth are part of life. Look for the gift on the other side of upheaval. It’s there. Be aware of your thoughts and feelings. KNOW that what you desire to attract is on it’s way to you. And take action on the whisperings of YOUR OWN MAGIC WANDA.